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The PMS Quiz
Assign one point for each statement that resonates with you. Assign a zero for each statement that does not resonate with you. Then refer to the scale at the end of the quiz to calculate your score.
     
To what degree do these statements Resonate with you? Does Resonate with me. Does Not Resonate
1. It isn’t important for me to have my own source of income if my partner earns a good living.    
2. I often feel like an appendage of my mate rather than my own person.    
3. I am willing to sacrifice myself if it is necessary to to keep my family and home intact.    
4. I am a different person when I am around my mate than when I’m not.    
5. I have not lived up to my potential in many areas of my life.    
6. It is important to me not to overshadow my mate’s accomplishments.    
7. My mate’s public image is more important to me than my self-image.    
8. I felt as though I had more influence over the direction my life took before I got married.    
9. I will not pursue my goals unless I have my mate’s blessing.    
10. I don’t feel entitled to work because my mate’s income has made us financially secure.    
11. I often wonder what happened to the person I used to be.    
12. I would rather be in an “emotionally bankrupt” relationship with my powerful mate than risk being alone.    
13. I have done things that are immoral or illegal in order to protect my mate’s image.    
14. I am a “silent partner” in my relationship.    
15. I care about what my friends would think if I decided to end my marriage.    
16. My mate is man/woman enough to satisfy my every need.    
17. It is difficult to be with my mate without taking a drink or using some type of drugs.    
18. Sex is the currency I use to get whatever I want from my mate.    
19. Without my mate, I would be nobody.    
20. I am not worthy of having everything I want in my life because I already have so much.    
21. I married a powerful mate because of the status and wealth that go along with the marriage.    
22. I am unable to effectively communicate my needs to my mate.    
23. Having my mate’s approval is of the utmost importance to me.    
24. I don’t like the person I have become.    
25. My life is full of material things but I feel like something is missing.    
26. I don’t share my vulnerabilities with my mate because I don’t want to appear to be dependent.    
27. I know how to take care of everyone’s needs except my own.    
28. If my mate died suddenly, I would not know how to handle my financial matters.    
29. As long as I look good on the outside, it doesn’t matter that I feel so bad on the inside.    
30. Rather than risk a disagreement, my mate and I talk about everything except our relationship.    
     
Quiz Scoring

If your score is 20 or more points: You have either already succumbed to PMS or are at high risk for doing so. You have left the responsibility for your life up to your mate. You need to reassess your goals and get a grip on reality. Your life and relationship need a major overhaul. You have much work to do but all is not lost. Read on!

If your score is 19 to 11 points: You have a strong propensity to succumb to PMS but you haven’t fallen into the abyss completely. Your sense of self-worth and identity could definitely be strengthened. Your relationship could use a tune-up. It is time to take stock of your goals for your life and your relationship. You have some work to do. Read on!

If your score is 10 or less points: You have a few issues but you’ve still got the upper hand on PMS. Read on and learn how you can prevent it from taking hold in your relationship. You have the opportunity to be proactive and create the relationship you want. Read on!

     

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